Bondage is popular because more and more people want a new sexual experience that adds spice to their sex life. If you are one of them, it might be interesting for you to know some of the new types of bondage sex positions. In fact, BDSM is more than just a mundane relationship, it is based on trust and the search for pain relief, pleasure, maximum satisfaction and sexual desire.

By restricting your partner's movement, you can change the way you feel about maintaining sexual contact. Now you are ready to borrow BDSM techniques to spice up your sex life.

Bondage sex positions can make your sex life more exciting. Restricting sex is natural and convenient for us. Some of us prefer to be reserved because it gives us a sense of comfort and security.

Perfect Positions for Beginner

The crab tie

 

This is super sexy and is great for blowjob and cunnilingus, but also for regular sex. It ties the wrists of the sub to their ankles and additionally ties their knees and elbows. The crab position is a very restrictive position, but it allows the submissive to roll on their back opening and close their legs as they or their partner desires.

A far less risky variant of the crab binding position uses silk scarves to bind the forearms to their calves.

Sit your submissive on the floor or bed with knees bent. Tie the arms to your calves with either a silk scarf or velcro cuffs.

The bottom’s up


One of the easiest and sexiest bondage moves to master, the bottoms position up is also one of the best spread bar positions to try. It puts your butt up in the air, ready for all the devilish fantasies you have for your submissive.
Her bottom kneels on the bed with all fours. Lower your face to the cushion and bring your arms back one after the other to place your arms between or outside of your legs in the wrist cuffs of the spreader bar. Squeeze your lower legs apart and cuff them ankle to ankle with the cuffs. 

The handcuffs position

Metal handcuffs come in a variety of styles at many different prices, from cheap, cheerfully furry handcuffs to professional stainless steel models. For couples who are serious about bondage and want to go beyond gaming restrictions, steel handcuffs are a must for their collection. From silk sashes to fabric cuffs, handcuffs will leave your partner immobilised in any way you want. 

The Waitress

As the name suggests, the position of the waitress makes the sub (s) carry a tray of drinks, but not much else. The waitress's position is such that the elbows behind his back and the wrists are held back from him.

If you want to keep your partner in the waitress position without the use of ropes, you must master the Shibari binding, also known as a single or two-column binding, which I will explain in detail below. With this tie you can tie your forearms behind your back with a spreader bar over your elbows and tie your hands in front of it.

You can buy T-Shaper spreader bars and collars for just this purpose, which provides a less risky alternative to rope. If your forearms cannot move, you can secure your wrists with handcuffs of your choice. A simpler and safer alternative is to use a large shackle or spreader bar to secure the forearm behind his back.

More advanced bondage positions

 

Spread eagle position

Do not forget to ensure that your arms and legs are not tied too tightly. Spread Eagle is a simple BDSM technique in which both persons are bound but only one is bound. Attach your partner's hands and legs to the four corners of the bed, keeping the back and front parts of your partner's body accessible. This position is perfect for beginners as it does not require much flexibility, and you can connect with another partner in this position if it is not a special bonding skill. 

 

Chair Bondage Position

 
It is one of the bondage positions that is ideal for blowjobs. You can also apply a bondage chair with an opening to it, which will help to expand and enliven this sexual technique. It is a very popular position that is perfect for newcomers. Handcuffing a person while seated leads to unrestricted sexual access. They will enjoy having access to the genitals.

 

Wall-Bound Position

This technique is a great way to tie a person up in a comfortable way. Since the wall helps to keep the balance, this position is ideal for BDSM newcomers. You can perform this position with or without ankle strap.

A bare wall or a permanent vertical flat band can be tied to the partner. A shower suit with shower tap can also be used to tie the partner in the shower.

This technique conveys an excellent feeling, which can be incapacitating and powerful. Try it if you're looking for bondage tape ideas.

 

 

Wide Open Position

It is effortless to create this pose. Simply get a partner on the bed with your legs and arms spread out wide and tie your legs together with the help of a strap. The posture should be as comfortable as possible. There are many sexual possibilities in this position. Bondage newcomers will appreciate the technique of tying the partner who remains exposed, and is an excellent target for a second partner.

Oral or penetration sex, with sex toys or tender impact games, choose the way you want to make the most of this great sexual pleasure. 

 

 

Armbinder Gag Bondage Position

Create vulnerability for your partner by tying their arms behind their back using bondage ropes in your sexual play. 

This technique is suitable for people who prefer rope binding positions and other forms of binding. It doesn't require a lot of plasticity and you can keep everything in balance. Adding a gag makes for extra fun in that position. It adds a certain spice to your sex game. Remember that you can specify non-verbal characters to be used if your partner wants to stop playing.

 

Hog Tie

 

It is by far the most widely used BDSM technique and probably the most widely used at present.

Lying on your stomach, your partner ties your arms behind your back. Your ankles are bound together and pull your arms back, your back slightly arched.

If you are looking for ideas for rope bondage, hot tie belts may be suitable for you, but may not be the best choice if you are a beginner. Especially if the limbs are stretched too far, injuries can occur. There are variations of hot ties which are less strenuous on the limbs.

Bent Over Bondage Position

 

If you are flexible and can keep your balance, you can have sex with the bent technique. Try to apply a wide position, similar to a forward-facing dog position. You can also take a close position by putting your hands on your feet. Your partner should be there to support you and keep your balance.

A spreader bar is perfect for this position for quick and easy application.

Cocoon Or Mummification

 

It is one of the most extreme bondage sex positions because the whole body is tied together into a cocoon. Sexual access is secondary to maximum pleasure, and there are total restrictions.

However, the more experienced partner does not risk using them too much, so there is nothing here for someone who is less experienced than a partner who is not in danger of using them too much.

It can be stressful to be tied up from head to toe, physically and figuratively, but also emotionally.

Mummification with plastic sheeting could attract partners who want to test their boundaries and challenge themselves outside the constraints of traditional rules.

If you want to combine sexual pleasure with mummification, leave a hole in the genital area.

Shrimp Or Forced Bow Bondage Position

 

The advantage of this technique is that you are tied to the seated person and can turn your partner around in any way you want to approach the buttocks or genitals. In this way it is similar to hog tie. 

It restricts the breathing of the binding partners so the position must be controlled carefully, it can be difficult to maintain this technique.

Over-The-Chair Position

 

This technique is suitable for those who prefer to have anal sex.

It conveys a sense of limitation and security at the same time. First, think of a sustainable and comfortable chair procurement. Think of an ordinary chair that can become the perfect tool for your BDSM ideas and their implementation.

It's one of the best bondage ideas for couples. It is the perfect technique for whipping and intense penetration. Adjust a position where the partner has the ankles on one side of the chair and the hands and body on the other side of the chair.

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