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The gag brings to life your sexual fantasies, enabling you to partake in some mild power-play as well as keeping a noisy submissive quiet. Whilst gags & bits are primarily worn by the submissive, in some scenes the dominant might find themselves wearing it.
With the sub being dined the option to moan or cry out in pleasure, the kinky toy makes your orgasm intense and unforgettable from all of the sexy frustration.
What is a gag?
A gag refers to a device worn in your mouth to prevent you from speaking, which often increases the wearers sense of helplessness and anxiety, which can deliver erotic pleasure. The gag is usually made from rubber or silicone and then connected to a strap. The straps go around your head to hold the device in position during foreplay or intercourse, or whatever activity you wish to partake in whilst gagged. The gag prevents you from talking, but you can moan in pleasure or even drool while your partner drives you crazy.
Some wear gags as an act of humiliation, usually reserved for very naughty submissive, others love the sound their partner makes while gags, which can be a real turn-on. When one is sexually aroused by gags, it may be called paraphilia.
There are typically three gag types. Over the mouth gags, mouth stuffing gags and open mouth gags. Each gag has its place and has its own benefits. For example the open mouth gag is great for those who want the benefits of a gag but still desire access to the mouth at the same time.
What is a bit?
A bit is a cylindrical tube that is held in your mouth, usually by a head strap. It works the similar to a gag, but doesn’t restrict speech as effectively, to this end they often allow the user to beath through the mouth which is often restricted when wearing a gag. The aesthetics’ of a bit sometimes hold a great appeal when compared to a gag. The toy is usually bar shaped to be easier to sink your teeth.
Why use a gag during sex
There are various reasons why you should start to think of using a gag in the bedroom. Here are some reasons that will change your mind and add the kinky toy to your collection.
- It signifies trust between partners.
Trust is an important part of your relationship, and there is no better way to show it than to use a gag. Though you may think bondage is all about submission and dominance, it’s not.
It's a matter of whether you trust your partner or not. Would you allow your spouse to gag you if you don't trust them? Hell No, you won't even think of it, let alone try it.
This is why those who engage in bondage foreplay have a high level of trust and even bond to a deeper level. Restricted breathing and speech show how deep your bond goes. This, in turn, improves your relationship.
- The sex toy is visually stimulating.
Sex starts from the mind; it is what you see that triggers your arousal. The sight of the leather and restraints on your partner and sounds made from the submissive is enough to turn some on. This arouses them while you prepare your body for an electric and intense orgasm.
- It can cause you to drool a lot.
Drooling is perfect for those who enjoy oral sex during foreplay. When you wear a gag, it restricts your tongue movement and forces one to drool.
Once your mouth is extremely wet, you can remove the gag and go down your partner. Giving them sloppy oral sex using the saliva as a lube, which is perfect for oral stimulation.
- It helps to keep the noise down.
BDSM needs one to get into character and even intensifies orgasm making the sub to moan in pleasure. This is where a gag comes in to help keep the noise down. Hence, you can enjoy yourselves without disturbing the neighbors or even waking up the kids.
Drawbacks of wearing a gag
A few things to bear in mind when playing with gags.
- Time limit
Using a gag is are sexy and arousing, but one needs to be careful not to take things too far. Though they don't put intense strain on the sub's jaw, they can cause irregular breathing. This can be a problem for one who has an underlined condition or even a newbie. Therefore, keep checking in on your sub and never leave them alone. Be mindful of how long the gags has been in place and be sure to start off with the gag for short periods of time when you first start out.
- It renders the mouth off-limits
If you are used to having access to your spouse's mouth when making love, the gag won't be the best toy. Once the gag is on, getting your fingers or anything else into their mouth is impossible. If you want quick access to the mouth when the moment strikes, ensure to go for gags with ease removal balls or bars to enable oral play.
Safety
Gags are not recommended for those engaging in rough BDSM play. Although the gags or bits are usually made of a soft material, the gag could cause damage to the lips or jaw if pulled around too much during a particularly rough session.
Never leave a gagged person alone. There’s a pretty low chance of choking when wearing a gag or bit, however as the sub will be relying on breathing through their nose, blocked airways from allergy flare up or vomit could impede their ability to breath effectively.
We expect that you already have a safe word, however it’s not that easy to shout it when your mouth is full to the brim, we recommend you decided on a safe action / hand gesture or series of noises, such as three quick grunts to show your dominant that you want to be release.
Final word
If you’d like to give gagging a go, check out the range of Gags and Bits from Sex Superstore and see what takes your fancy. Remember, be safe but have fun. Enjoy!