Vibrators ... An incredible way to explore what you love most in the bedroom. This article will teach you how to use your vibe when your alone, or during sex with your partner.
1. Finding your Vibrator
Firstly, owning a vibrator is completely normal. Over 55% of student reported that they own & use a vibrator, furthermore, the majority of them report that their sex is far more enjoyable when their vibe is involved. Don't feel that owning a vibrator is taboo, dont miss out!
Owning a vibrator is not only completely normal, but also cheap. While you may see some branded vibrators selling for up to £100, you can pick up a simple battery powered vibrator for as little as £8.99 online and have it shipped discreetly to your home.
2. Get to know your Vibe
Before using your vibrator during sex, you should experiment by using it yourself. Every vibrator is different, you need to get to know how to work & what you like.
Turn it on, play with the setting and notice how each setting effects the intensity of the vibrations. Just holding it in your hands while its vibrating feels pleasurable.
3. Getting an Orgasm
You should find somewhere quiet, where you aren't going to be disturbed. Make sure you're relaxed and comfortable and suitably turned on. Different people need to do different things to turn themselves on.
You can multiple things to get turned on. Watch some Porn videos which suit your taste. Read an erotic or romantic novel. Sometimes all you need is imagination. It's important to do what you need to do to get aroused, don't rely solely on the vibrator to turn you on.
When you're suitable aroused, it's time to start exploring your vibrator. Turn it on to a low setting, then run it gently over your body. Don't feel that you need to go straight to your most sensitive regions with it just yet — instead, pay close attention to what feels enjoyable and pleasurable.
You'll notice that different areas of your body respond differently to it. In certain areas, it will feel too powerful and it will be more irritating than pleasurable. This is totally normal, all you need to do is turn down the intensity, while other areas will require a lot of vibrations to feel enjoyable.
4. Experiment and focus on what feels good without worrying about reaching orgasm.
Eventually, bring the vibrator down to your private area and start running it over yourself and take a mental note of what feels best & what doesn't. To start increasing the pleasure, start moving the vibrator closer to your clitoris. Many ladies say that having the vibrators directly on their clitoris in uncomfortable or painful, so you may want to hold it a little bit away from any sensitive areas, just do what you feel is most pleasurable.
Reaching an orgasm is incredibly simple when following these steps!
5. Your partner + Vibrator
Just like solo play, a vibrator will add another dimension to sex with your partner. Many women struggle to reach orgasm through penetration along. Keep your vibrating friend by your bedside & use it when having sex to keep the heat.
Of course, you can use the vibrator on yourself, but don't forget, it's great to use on your man during sex or foreplay. Gently apply it to any part of his genitals and he'll enjoy it! Don't be surprised if he quickly climaxes when using it on the top part of his penis.
Doggie style is one of the best positions to use the vibrator on yourself as you'll usually have on hand free. Make sure you experiment with other position to find what you both prefer.
6. Put on a show for your man.
Men are visual - That's why they like to watch Porn. So, put the lights on a low setting & do what you do on your own.
If you find that your man doesn't feel like he's "enough" or you can tell that your man is feeling weird about it, just make him aware that it's not him.
Explain that all Woman are different and reach orgasms differently during sex. Tell him that you have trouble and the vibrator is just to help you cross the finish line.
Not all men will understand this, even after explaining.
Lastly, don't become dependant on a vibrator. If you use your vibrator every night, your body will change & you'll not be able to orgasm without using a vibrator. Making sex without your vibrator very boring...
1 comment
Pete
First time my girlfriend pulled out 1 of her vibrators I almost jumped out me skin. Since then I’ve collected a number of different toys like, vibes, prostate massagers, plugs, sleeves and even a strap-on she loves to put on for pegging. I’d recommend trying as many toys as possible, even just once, you never know what your into and will go crazy for till you try it. I did and now addicted to sextoys and and getting pegged.